Find Balance in an Unbalanced World Today ~ The Oola Way

Who's excited to learn more aboutย Oola for Women and find balance in their lives?!? ๐Ÿคš๐Ÿคš๐Ÿคš Pinch me because I think I'm dreaming!? Three...

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{Enjoying the Start of Fall}

Our family has been making sure to take time to stop and smell the crisp, fall air so far this season, and I’m working to embrace autumn for all its gloriousness (and not as the sign of summer and Daylight Savings Time ending)!

A few weeks back we continued our autumnal tradition by going to the Louisburg Cider Fest; we had a great time going through the impressive and ever-changing corn maze with some long-time friends that we ran into while we were at the Cider Mill. I savored a Sparkling Raspberry Apple Cider beverage and shared my fresh-made cotton candy and nachos with my tiny tot who was just about as thrilled as (pregnant) me to partake in those indulgent snacks. ๐Ÿ™‚ He loved climbing in the corn-filled, jack-o-lantern-painted bin, he enjoyed the blue-grass band while he sat listening on hay bails, and he had a great time playing among the other children doing kiddo activities like sliding down the hillside and leaping around the pumpkin patch without tripping.

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{My Grief and Loss and the Ray of Sunshine in My Life}

On May 28, 2015, my beloved grandma Beth Tielke passed away after a brief battle with cancer. I loved my grandma beyond belief and definitely beyond words. That became increasingly apparent in these weeks after she passed away because I longed to be able to put into words to people how much she meant to me and yet I felt like no one could truly know unless they shared our titanium bond. And while we had an amazing bond, let me also say that my grandma had a unique way of making anyone she was talking with feel like they were the most important person in the room, because to her, they were. Jokingly, she always told whichever child, grandchild or great-grandchild who was with her that they were her favorite. So if I have any family members read this, I know you were truly her favorite. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I wanted to write this because I wanted to express the feeling of deep sadness I have but also something more intense. I have a strong impression from conversations with my grandma over the past couple years that she wants me to be able to carry on without her and have the best life possible, free of sadness as much as possible. Just this past year at Christmas she said in her most cheerful disposition, “Oh, I could die happy now because I know that you have everything you need and you have [your husband] and [child]!” Our family was used to Grandma saying things like that or about her own mortality with light-heartedness over the years, and I guess in a way she may have been preparing us for the inevitable so that we could one day face the reality of the loss ourselves.

I’m not sure that you can ever be fully prepared for the feelings and emotions that come with loss or the loss itself. But I do feel comforted by some conversations I had with her in which she told me everything was going to be fine. My grandma also faced difficult losses during her lifetime and I remember some of my favorite road trips with her involved talking about the signs that she had seen that indicated to her that her mother was watching over her. On those drives, I always looked at the sky through the windshield–day or night–and tried to envision heaven and those I knew who were there.

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